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Ask Nurse Lynn: Supporting a Long Life with PWS

Question:

Male, 20 years old, deletion subtype

I want to know how to help our son live longer and how to be ready for him to outlive me.

Nurse Lynn’s Response:

It is both loving and wise to think about how to help your 20-year-old son with PWS live a long, healthy life and how to prepare for the future. The good news is that many people with PWS today are living much longer than in the past because we now understand what their bodies and brains need. One of the most important things you can do is make sure your son lives in a food-secure environment. This means food is planned, supervised, and consistent, with no surprises. When food rules are clear and the same every day, it lowers anxiety, prevents weight gain, and protects long-term health.

Mental health care is just as important as managing food. Many young adults with PWS have anxiety, mood changes, or trouble handling stress, even if they don’t always say it out loud. Regular mental health check-ins and working with providers who understand PWS can prevent serious problems later on. Reducing stress, avoiding power struggles, and keeping daily routines predictable all help protect both mental and physical health. People with PWS tend to do best when life feels safe, calm, and expected.

Ongoing medical care also plays a big role in helping people with PWS live longer. Even when your son seems healthy, regular checkups are important because people with PWS may not show typical signs of illness. Doctors should watch things like sleep, breathing, blood pressure, blood sugar, and infections. Catching problems early can prevent medical emergencies and improve quality of life over time.

It is also important to think about the future and plan ahead. Planning things like guardianship, financial supports, and future living options while things are stable can prevent stress and crisis later. Building a circle of support that includes family members, professionals, and trusted providers helps make sure your son is cared for no matter what.

Finally, writing down what you know about your son can be one of the greatest gifts you give him. Information about what helps him when he is anxious, how food should be handled, what routines work best, and what brings him joy can guide future caregivers. With strong supports, clear planning, and a loving team around him, many adults with PWS can live full lives well into older adulthood.

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